We have decided it is time to move on. Living in Portugal has been a great chapter in our journey, but we always knew this is an unsustainable endeavor (at least the way we have been living).
Now it is time to enter the “real” world again. Yes, this means we need to start making money again.
Part of our Portugal experience included reading books that inspire us. Here is the list of books we have been working through on this trip: https://www.golaunch.net/books/. My favorite so far is Start With Why by Simon Sinek, Leslie’s favorite is A Million Miles In A Thousand Years by Donald Miller.
Favorite to us means they have made the largest impact on our life today. For me, Start with why has been a game changer. I am an aspiring business man with dreams and ideas galore. So many, in fact, that I have regularly (constantly) been stalled out because I don’t know which one is the right choice to get started with. Ultimately, it comes down to not having a good way to gauge the quality of each idea.

Start with why clearly lays out how it is not the quality of the idea that matters, but how that idea resonates with your own desires for progress. As I think back through all of the stories I have read of entrepreneurs I think are successful, they all built companies with a mission that made sense. In Simon Sinek’s terminology, they had a clear sense of why they were doing it. Check out the link to Sinek’s book above to really understand what I am trying to say.
For me, thinking about why I want to do things gives me a filter for my choices (money doesn’t count in the end, it is just a desired byproduct). When I apply a why to each business idea my excitement wither goes up or down. When the why resonates with my passions and future visions of the world I start seeing an idea as an adventure with exciting challenges. When it doesn’t, I feel the oppression of all of the tasks that need accomplishment prior to launch.
That was a bit of a tangent, but it leads into our next adventure. We have a new quest: to build a sustainable life that fulfills our spirits. We are moving back to the States in a few weeks. After a couple weeks of visiting friends and family (and a bit of work), we are heading to Bend, OR.
We chose Bend because it has a lifestyle that is appealing. Bend is active and outdoorsy, it has great skiing at Mt. Bachelor (we haven’t been on skis in a couple years), and the sun shines a good share of the year!
Our intention is to settle in as quickly as possible and launch into starting businesses. My leading business idea (using my new “why” filter!) will mean traveling to coastal cities and towns, our living location is not particularly important. Leslie is planning to start a business as well. Her business idea is the consumer product type and, again, not location specific. This is great because we can live somewhere for lifestyle rather than work, hence Bend.
Living the retired life in Portugal has given us some interesting perspective on fulfilling our spirits. We are both missing a mission in life. In the past, work has fulfilled this to some degree. For me, work became sort of a self perpetuating downward spiral. The more I worked, the more I felt I needed to work, and, in the end, the house, the car, the stuff didn’t really make me feel accomplished. Work covered up the mission with limited time and providing for my family.
Leslie and I both have desires to help the world. For me, it is about advancing the world. The world is where it is at, but there are opportunities everywhere to improve things. My personal realization came from exploring real estate investing. I am a dreamer, and as I dream bigger and bigger, I realized that real estate investing is limited to the economic development of a community. Real estate investment can improve the quality of life a bit, but real growth comes in the form of business and industry growth.
Leveraging new technologies or new ideas to improve the world is what excites me. This has become my filter as I work through my different business ideas. I am going to launch a business along these lines. The first project will help communities with tourism from an infrastructure development angle. It will be accomplished by modifying a relatively new technology for a totally new application. Using technology and new ideas to improve a community… perfect!
There are some major hurtles, but I am starting with a passion for the project, not just the technology or the money. The first challenge that will be particularly difficult for me will be contacting and building relationships with the communities and organizations necessary to make these infrastructure projects happen. My wife says I always want everything perfect before I get started and never end up starting. She is right; I tend to be slower than I should be to get started. I am also not the gregarious, type A personality that picks up the phone at the drop of a hat. Knowing this, a) it is something for me to work on, and b) I am going to keep my eyes open for a possible business partner that has connections, fills some of my personality and business voids, and shares my excitement for the improving world.
I am excited to see where this goes!
Portugal has been a great experience. There have been challenges all over the place, particularly with a baby. It has cost us more than originally expected (and intended). In hindsight we would have done a few things differently. But, there is no way I would take any of it back. As Master Card would say: the experience has been “priceless”.
Living abroad has taught me, more than anything, what I want to do. The unexpected ways that new experiences challenged us really opened our eyes.
I thought much of this trip was going to be about living in a less developed country and learning that we need less. Learning to live with less stuff has happened a bit (mostly through the need to move often), but the real take home has been more internal than external.
The dreamy life of being retired at 40 sounds good, but the reality is a bit different. We really found a desire for progressive goals. Something to work on. Another beautiful day wandering didn’t give us quite as much motivation to get up in the morning as we thought. Now we are excited to get up in the morning and work on our businesses!
This is not to say we never want this lifestyle again, next time will just be different. We will have something to work on and, hopefully, be living a sustainable lifestyle (watching the savings slowly drain away adds a surprising amount of stress for us!).
If you have dreamed of moving abroad, or challenging the status quo of your life, I absolutely recommend going for it! If your experience is anything like mine, you will learn and grow a little in the way you intended, and will learn more than you can imagine in some unexpected way. Just step outside of your comfort zone and see what happens!
Even though we are moving on, this is not the end for my blog. First, there is more I want to post about Portugal and traveling. Second, I plan to give some details about how our move back to the States goes (moving back from New Zealand was a huge culture shock!). And, third, I intend to blog about how our business experiences go after all of this inspiration. Stay tuned!
For those just here to keep up with Theo’s antics, here is some fun:






























